Summer Learning

I always have grand plans.  Plans of how our homeschool year will run.  Plans of how our days will go.  Unfortunately for me, many of these plans don’t work out.  I’m always left feeling like we aren’t doing enough because we don’t do everything on my “list”.  Well, the truth of the matter is this is a lie.  A big, fat lie.  Our kids are learning.  They are progressing.  They are processing everything and making connections.   As parents, we worry about our kids.  We want them to do well.  We want them to be happy and to “succeed”.  Success looks different to everyone.  For some people, success may include college.  For others, it’s trade school.  For some, it’s becoming an author or a CEO.  The point is, success depends on what is valued.  For us, we want our kids to be independent.  We want them to find some happiness in life.  We want them to love God and follow His prompting towards whatever life He has set for them.

Jeremiah 29:11

For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD,

“plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.

Copyright RosesatDawn 2019

God has the big picture in mind.  He knows where we are headed and how we can help others learn about Him.  He has only our good in mind.  Guess what?  I can’t see the big picture.  I don’t know where we are headed in life.  I know our end goal, but the twists and turns in our life ahead are unknown to me.  After all, I am not God.  I am simply an imperfect human being doing her best to follow God’s will for my life.  So I, naturally, focus on what I can control.  I focus on what I do know.  And I make lists.  I make plans.  I like to cross off items as I finish them.  It gives me a sense of accomplishment.  It makes me feel like I am moving forward.  And while there is nothing wrong with this, it is not the be-all and end-all.  Our journey towards God and living with Him forever in the afterlife are the end goal.

1 Timothy 2:3-4

This is good, and pleases God our Savior,

who wants all people to be saved and

to come to a knowledge of the truth.

Sometimes in the midst of planning and dealing with everyday life, I lose sight of this fact.  I lose sight of the end goal.  I forget that just because we didn’t continue doing our science curriculum during the summer doesn’t mean that we aren’t moving towards our end goal.  Just because we haven’t done a foreign language lesson every day, or even every week, doesn’t mean we aren’t learning.  Just because our days don’t look like what I want them to, it doesn’t mean that we aren’t making progress.  Our children are outside playing in the dirt.  They are climbing, running, and jumping.  They are moving their bodies.  They are looking at the sky and taking in the songs of birds.  They are examining plants and worms.  They are cooking and baking and inventing new recipe ideas.  They are sitting down and doing nothing.  They are learning.  They are loving, squabbling, and praying before every meal.  They are loving on their three-month-old brother.  They are helping with the chores and gathering wood for the winter.  They are watching the seeds they planted in the garden grow.

Copyright RosesatDawn 2019

Sure, I can’t document everything they are doing right now and consider it “school work” to prove that we are actually teaching our children.  I can’t quantify it and put it all down on a worksheet or have them write an essay on their days.  I mean, I could, but really, what would that be teaching them?  That all life is supposed to be considered work?  How about rest?  After all, even God rested after He created the world.  And if He considered it important, then I should as well.  They are learning.  They are probably learning more about what they are going to need to succeed during our time off than during the school year.  Yes, I just said that.  And it may just be a reflection of what we value in life, but we don’t care if our kids go on to college.  We don’t care if they “just” want to stay home and be a housewife, or run a small farm, or write novels all day, even be an artist.  We care about them following God’s calling in life.  And right now, their calling is to take in the glory of God’s creation.  It’s to go out, have some fun, do a little work, and rest.  Now if I can only remember to do the same, then we might just be on the right track.

Proverbs 3:5-6

Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding;

in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.


How is your summer going?

23 thoughts on “Summer Learning

    1. Thank you. I appreciate you saying so, we are trying! 🙂 I am working (still 😉 ) on the whole “let go and let God”. I am slowly (very slowly) starting to do just that. Life is a work in progress! God Bless!!

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  1. Whoo hoo! Well said mama! As a fellow homeschool mom I completely agree with what you’ve said…I love that we can be flexible and learn in so many ways..learning through living! and yes through Him we see how important rest really is!

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  2. This is exactly how I feel. We aren’t doing schoolwork during the summer and I’m okay with that. This week is my week of searching for curriculum (wouldn’t you know there are sales going on and I don’t have the money this week! Argh!). I’m excited for the new year. I’ve found some things I really think he’s going to enjoy and I really hope to be more hands on this year. We all need that reminder about rest -and that means even resting our minds, which I find to be the hardest thing to do!

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    1. Curriculum shopping can be fun, exciting, and frustrating, lol! Good luck and I’d love to hear what you decide on. I always enjoy seeing what other people have decided to use. I changed my mind on our Bible this year and got this one instead Yes, I had to pay for it, which I try to avoid whenever possible, but I feel like for us, this is going to work out so much better and it’s what I have been looking for. (Ask me halfway through the year how I still feel about it, lol) And the sales always happen at the wrong time for me! Very frustrating! I hope it all works out and you still get to take advantage of those sales! God Bless!


      1. Right now we are looking at Notgrass “America the Beautiful” for history (haven’t ordered it yet, so it may be September when I get that); TeachingTexbooks for Math, Apologia Physical Science for Science (it’s a little advanced for him, but we’ll see how it goes); I have a Master Books Language Arts course I got lost year and felt was too advanced but am going to try this year. I have a saxon books course I really want for Grammar and Writing. I’m going to look at this Bible curriculum you’re getting because we didn’t have a strict Bible course last year and I’d like to have that this year.

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  3. Sounds like a great summer ! You’re doing an amazing job! ♥️ they learn so much when we leave them alone to use their imaginations and initiative. I always think of myself as a facilitator more than a teacher . Lists are a tool, not our master. 😊

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  4. “Just because we haven’t done a foreign language lesson every day, or even every week, doesn’t mean we aren’t learning.” AMEN!
    Why do we women feel as if we have to do everything every day? Have some of us fallen victim to the “Proverbs 31 woman” lie? As I mentioned in my recent posts about that chapter, (“That Ain’t Me!” September 27&28) nowhere does it say that this ideal woman does ALL those things in one day, or even in the same season of life. Releasing your children from the tyranny of the to-do list could be one of the best gifts you give them. God shows up in some of the most unlikely places and at some of the most unexpected moments. Enjoy!

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    1. I think most of us have fallen for that lie at one point or another. It’s so easy to do and comparing ourselves to others just seems to come naturally 🙂 Yesterday was one of “those” days for us. We didn’t get much done academically, but I am hoping (and praying!) we learned some life lessons that are more valuable in the long run than academics. God Bless!

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